Friendship. It seems like a simple concept. You find someone that you get along with and you have a good time. It should not be hard work to maintain a friendship. Sure you spend time with each other and enjoy each others company. Of course I will do anything in my power to help my friends. I have the best friends in the world and I cannot say that enough to make it more true.
I am done with drama. My group of friends just have fun and we all get along. Okay so sometimes someone may get offended. Spending too much time together allows for that. It cannot be all hunky dory all of the time. That is life, you know?
In the same sense we all get along and have a good time. We laugh. We communicate. We are there for each other when needed.
In short I do not do well with high maintenance. (I am sorry if that is spelt wrong. That is one word I always have a hard time with.) If anyone upsets me, I get rid of them. They are deleted in a sense. I may still have to see the person if we are with mutual friends but I am not going set specific time to the side just for said person.
Okay I guess I am rambling.
Relationships are work. Being with one person. Loving someone. That is work. It is hard being involved with someone and caring for someone. It is supposed to be that way. If it was easy, being in love would just not be much fun.
Friendships are not supposed to be work. I choose who my friends are. I choose who I spend my free time with. I enjoy every spare minute that life gives me. Lately, my best friend is myself. I spend more time alone than I do with company. After working five days a week I like to be alone. I also feel as though I am out of the loop because I do not see my gang as often as I would like. I do not know what is going on with anyone. Everyone knows what is going on with me curteosy of facebook and this here blog.
Well that is all my ranting for now. I will talk to you later!
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